tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8771034350249515336.post2622146325563659118..comments2023-08-12T11:26:54.805-04:00Comments on Graceful Disaster...Life, Parenting & Humor: Child Support Is NOT Voluntary!!!Giggleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10391410932129456943noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8771034350249515336.post-38352035860443865692012-07-16T14:27:03.209-04:002012-07-16T14:27:03.209-04:00It KILLS me that people (moms and dads alike) act ...It KILLS me that people (moms and dads alike) act like they have a choice. I am not the custodial parent and I give way more than I'm supposed to. And honestly, I don't have it to give, but I make it work. My ex makes a lot more than I do, but I still do as much as I can.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18267125536731416039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8771034350249515336.post-71611348532162507352012-07-03T03:02:26.524-04:002012-07-03T03:02:26.524-04:00Well it certainly isn't voluntary. One should ...Well it certainly isn't voluntary. One should pay for it timely, if not then the police will have something to say about that.Kidswatch Parental Controlhttp://www.kidswatch.com/Monitor-Chat-Sessions.phpnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8771034350249515336.post-15148048555831141072012-07-02T23:56:13.410-04:002012-07-02T23:56:13.410-04:00I am lucky that I've never had to deal with th...I am lucky that I've never had to deal with the Child Support issues that a lot of mothers have. It's so sad. I have joint custody and my son's father is very much a part of my son's life....and we split the cost of everything, so Child Support was never sought after. I hate what you're dealing with. It's not a joy ride for single mom's. It's tough making it, muchLynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07671124410376529896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8771034350249515336.post-34769086834084353392012-07-02T19:42:41.018-04:002012-07-02T19:42:41.018-04:00Well in my opinion, whether you need or want the m...Well in my opinion, whether you need or want the money or not...if they're ordered to pay, I think they should be made to pay. Especially if he chooses not to be a part of their lives.Giggleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10391410932129456943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8771034350249515336.post-61566721080865261712012-07-02T16:26:21.651-04:002012-07-02T16:26:21.651-04:00Your a good strong mom!! I have the same issues, e...Your a good strong mom!! I have the same issues, except I have not taken him to court! It's been 7 years and I just don't want the drama and bill collector issues.. He does not see or hear from his kids so I choose not to proceed from the courts. Am I stupid for not fighting?? I know I won't get anything, so I don't make him pay! I keep him at a distance with his girls since he dee247https://www.blogger.com/profile/12044654784301053073noreply@blogger.com